Would I be unreasonable to scream down the phone to DH demanding he come back?

[AmazingBouncingFerret]

DH is at a stag weekend, he has been gone since Friday afternoon and doesnt come back till late Monday afternoon.

Since he's been gone the children have played up, DD wont go down to sleep as easily as she usually does and DS is refusing to sleep in his own bed.

Im in major stress about sisters wedding and where relatives are going to be sleeping the night before (they coming from oop north)

It all sounds very trivial when I type it like that but add the fact that ive been in work all day yesterday and today and have had to organise childcare for today and pick up DC's from childminder yesterday (I dont drive yet) I jsut really struggled, im finding it hard to carry anything now that im back at work and basically feel like jacking it all in and disappearing off somewhere! (on my own of course!)

WIBU to ask DH to come home?

It would wouldnt it...

Aha! Are you head office checking up on me slagging them off?

pmsl!

hardly you dozy moo! If I was would I have outed myself?

lol. Dare I ask which area?

My DH is at same stag do.
Have just ranted down the phone to him cos he's left me with the dog (instead of taking dog to MIL).
Dog has shat and peed all over hallway and I had to clear mess up.
I'm on crutches with SPD, back is now killing me.
Sorry you're having a shit time too Ferret, I wanted to stay over and help out (or at least keep company), but had to get back for stupid dog.

Your DH can't come back anyway, he's probably extremely drunk by now. Keep in mind that he owes you big favours now

Thank you Destructo!
See you tomorrow for sunday lunch, hopefully i'll be in a better mood.
Thank you so much for looking after DS today!!
Hope dog is ok. :(

not on here.

you on fb?

yeah. Not sure how to tell you how to find me without giving things away though...

are you on Tocc?

no idea what that is sorry.

try email

originalviperspit at yahoo dot co dot uk

heh I think ive found you, if not ive sent a friend request to some random woman!

Dog is ok. I've not told him off, it's not his fault he's getting old.

It's DH I blame lol.

Apparently your DH is enjoying himself very much and is wearing the leather trousers. We can have a good laugh at the pictures when they get back.

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Ferret have you tried osteopathy for your scoliosis, mine has improved massively since I had some treatment, coupled with some yoga. (I share your anxiety about the paralysis risk, thats not funny at all.)

As for the BU, yes, you know you are, but, I understand exactly how you feel. My DP works a shift pattern, is often "absent" (either at work or sleeping in the day) for several days at a time, so I'm used to being at home on my own with the kids. But sometimes, if he's not here, and it's a jolly rather than work, I feel disproportionately cross once he's left, and want to ring him and shout at him.

Looking after small children is hard, looking after small children when you are in significant amounts of pain is really hard. All you can do is drag yourself through it and make sure he pays you back big time in the near future!

Thank you GreenMonkies.

Im sorry destructo, but WTF?
MY DH IS WEARING LEATHER TROUSERS?????

omg I hope to all that is holy that your DH gets some photos.

I'm sorry they are at other half's stag weekend. If it makes it any better i am sitting crying because I left bud alone to die when he needed me, you used to feed him coco pops Ferret, even Destructogirl played with him. He was only a bird as probably most of you will Mumsnetters will think, but i loved him. And now my other baby is alone pulling his feathers. I want my birds back and am sick of this stupid wedding. Don't have crutches or a bad back - just pathetic really :o(

Also wrong smile thingy

Mills? Who has died? Im confused? What?
And shut up getting married is stressful now hush.

Stupid old budgie over 10 years ago. He tried to fly to me before they killed him. And I let them kill him.

Also im not bothered he is on your OH stag do (nearly typed hen night!) just the fact he's not here to help me.

It sounds like he's having a good time.

Pfft leather trousers...

phone me.

the intersting bit will be if he remembers where he got them and why was he wearing them