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in thinking hairdresser was being a bit over the top? Quite up for being told i am btw!

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minxofmancunia · 27/08/2010 09:11

DH took dd (nearly 4) to get her hair cut yesterday as she looks like worzel gummage (thick curly tangled thatch). She's 7 days post chickenpox, so no longer infected but has a few visible scabs. Washed her hair then on eof the stylists took dh for a "quiet word" they asked if her spots were chickenpox and dh said they were the scabs as a result of HAVING HAD IT a week previously. She then went on yo say they couldn't have her in the salon as one of the other stylists was pregnant and "one of her mates who was pregnant was near a child 10 days after the child got chickenpox and had to go to the drs for a special injection" Hmm. Dh asked pg stylist if she'd had it (yes) and explained the DoH and Manchester PCT policy of exposure to chickenpox ie 5 days post spots infection gone all ok esp as spots scabbed over.

They persisted in asking them to leave which they di but only after dh insisted they dry her hair whilst the pg stylist stayed in the back room.

I know there are complications of pg women get chickepox I have a pg friend who hasn't had it who was barred from our house last week! Are the guidelines diff for pg women???

Also loads of children go there to have their hair cut how the f**k is she going to protect herself from all their germs, just about every child I know has had is having or is incubating the pox at the moment. I suggest she secretes herself in darkened room until delivery Hmm.

Sorry if i sound unsympathetic but during the swine flu outbreak I had to work whilst pg in a child health department with numerous children and families who'd been in contact with swine flu, i certainly couldn't ask to not come into contact with school children, it's my job!

Quie up for being told I'm wrong here, I know I can be a bit hardfaced. Dh has booked her in for next Thur but am going to cancel it and book her somewhere else me being all uptight and pfb that I am Wink

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nancydrewrocked · 27/08/2010 13:56

Chicken pox in pregnancy is very very serious, so if (as she said) the hairdresser had not had it her concerns were quite reasonable.

I appreciate your DH informed her colleague that DD was past the infectious stage but it takes quite a leap of faith to trust people on the issue of chickenpox especially when so many people think of it as a very mild illness and have no understanding of how serious it is in pregnant woman who are not immune and infants.

minxofmancunia · 27/08/2010 14:28

sorry if unclear, the pregnant stylist HAD had chickenpox herself, dd has a few visible healing scabs, she certainly isn't covered. She no longer has the virus active in her system.

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diddl · 27/08/2010 14:32

Just another thought-has your daughter any scabs on her forehead or in her hair?

I have a scar on my face from where Mum was brushing my hair & caught a scab.

Overall, I think the hairdresser was right tbh.

You do sound awfully unsympathetic, & just because you chose to work wrt swine flu, doen´t mean she has to.

thesecondcoming · 27/08/2010 14:33

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