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to be very disturbed by the treatment of Mary Bale (cat-in-the-bin-woman!)

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tweetymum · 26/08/2010 21:14

Hear me out first please!

She did a very wrong thing, and I would have been furious if she had done that to my cat. However, I am extremely disturbed by the way she has been portrayed by the tabloid and national media. First, I think it may be illegal to film people without their knowledge (I am not sure about the exact regulations) but I am sure that you have to be informed if you are being watched on CCTV. She may not have done this to the kitty cat had she known she was being filmed and the cat would have been spared its ordeal.

To them put said film on the internet and trample all over the person?s privacy, is imo, not a very nice thing to do. Perhaps, all the owners wanted to do was identify the woman. But there must have been other ways to do this? Take it to the police maybe? RSPCA? But to make the recording (which may have been illegal in the first place) and then post it without a thought of the way in which this person?s life would be affected is thoughtless in the extreme.

How would the owners of the cat feel if, due to their video, some psychotic animal lover seriously injured or even killed Mary Bale?

I am also very disturbed by the way the media have jumped on this bandwagon, with some pretty abusive things being said about her. Let?s face it, which of us has not reacted in some shit way when we are stressed? But we have not been made into national hate figures. And there are people who have done worse in their lives who get away scot free.

I think that what Mary Bale did to the cat was very wrong and she should be punished suitably. However, I also cannot condone, what I see as extremely irresponsible behaviour, by the owners of putting the video on what is essentially a window to the world and ruining the woman?s life.

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sassymummy1 · 27/08/2010 15:19

These are the kind of sick weirdo people that are around us and our kids all the time without us even knowing about it. She deserves everything she gets the cruel woman I think its fantastic that she got caught on camera I hope her life is made as miserable as that cats could have been!! Maybe if more people had cameras it may deter this kind of unacceptable behaviour. I cannot even imagine having thoughts of putting anything alive inside a wheelie bin and the little pussy cat was showing her such love she is a very cruel twisted person who is not welcome in our society. These kind of people are around us all the time and should be exposed of who they really are. No one would ever expect a woman of her age to be so cruel. This what worries me about our teachers and people around us who you would expect to be safe around kids and animals especially a woman but are they really??!!!! I would definantly throw her in a wheelie bin if I ever saw her hope she has a sad life!!! Gosh she has made me very upset!!!!!!!!!!!! I dont trust anyone anymore.

sassymummy1 · 27/08/2010 15:23

How can you possibly turn the blame on the owners of the video its not their fault shes a sicko freak is it??!!! Think how many cats must go missing and end up in bins like this loving family pets who our kids adore. More camera should be around and the only people who are bothered about them is the ones who have something to hide. Wouldnt bother me if someone filmed me as I have nothing to hide

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