To not care

[Ryoko]

It's been 3 months since my son was born and I still don't care, his father wants a kiss and a cuddle, I don't care, I'm never in the mood I have other things on my mind, my son is my world.

haven't had sex for 4 months and I couldn't care less.

Is that normal?, I'm still trying to tidy up the flat and keep everything clean, DETOL is my friend don't want my little sweet-ems living in filth.

Ryoko-do you actually love your partner? You refer to him as your sons father, not dh/dp. You sound deeply resentful and very unhappy.
Is he an alcoholic? My friend went through something like this and her attitude sounds surprisingly similar to your own.

Or do you have PND?

If you don't love him,and it sounds like you don't. Why are you with him? It won't do the kids any good to see mummy and daddy in a loveless relationship.

Why are you lashing out at everyone?
I think they are trying to help you.

Well, I don't think I'd want to sleep with someone who is impatient with a baby. Might be why Ryoko doesn't feel any affection for him. Her loyalties are firmly with the baby. Agree that it needs to be sorted as it can't go on like this, but her fiance is hardly sounding appealing.Sulking is not a sexy trait. I have very little time for men whose noses get put out of joint by the arrival of a baby.

You seem to resent your partner being there, seems like he's "in the way" of you and your son somewhat and your first post seems to be bizarrely happy that you don't care about your partner anymore.

Something's ringing really really off with it all.