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...to expect to be able to but sensible shoes that fit my child?!?!

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scarymamma · 17/08/2010 21:35

Aaaargghhhh! It's one of my least favorite times of year. The 'let's get new school shoes' time. For the past 8 years I have had to sit and smile whilst some numpty shop assistant measures my childs feet and then gasps in amasement and then informs me that she has 'very narrow feet'. Really! Gasp! Shock! Surprise! D'oh - I'm her mother dya not think I know that? They then go on to ask 'have you seen anything you like?' From experience I now know to just say 'Why don't you just go see if you have anything to fit her, and we'll take it from there'. I reckon that 60% of the time they come back empty handed. So you have a child that has shoes that are a)worn out b)too small (delete as appropriate) and you have just been told that the shop can't help. The number of times we have been forced to buy ill fitting shoes with multiple innersoles JUST so the shoe doesn't literally 'fly' off her foot when she walks is shameful.
What is even more annoying is that the limited number of D fitting shoes are always open, pump style. My children have and will, for the forseeable future WALK to school - even in the rain. The poor thing has cold, wet feet all winter. There are shops catering to AA and AAA womens shoes - so why don't they stock children's shoes? Did these women suddenly turn 18 and their feet suddenly become narrow - NO! It was bad enough when DD was little - she's now 12 with size 7 feet, 5'10" and like a bean pole, so clothes buying isn't much fun either. She hates shopping for clothes and shoes. She see's all the other girls buying fun, fashionable things. I try to get her to try things on and she just says 'There's no point - it won't fit' and sadly she's generally right.
Sorry Ladies - just had to get it out of my system. Wish me luck for tomorrow. Ho hum - Clarks and StartRite you've been warned - here I come.

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abbierhodes · 17/08/2010 21:41

If she's size 7, then buy adults' shoes! They start at size three,so you could have been doing this for a while.

domesticsluttery · 17/08/2010 21:47

I sympathise.

All three of mine have narrow feet, the boys are both an E and DD is a D fitting.

I live in a small town with one shoe shop. Nine times out of ten there is nothing there that fits.

I have now found that you can order things to store from the Clarks website, so I go in and have them measured, go home and order a few suitable styles from the website and have them delivered to store, then go in and have them fitted.

It is long winded, but seems to be the only way of doing it.

rainbowinthesky · 17/08/2010 21:52

I find it incredibly difficult to get shoes for dd and it's been years since she's been able to have any other shoes apart from school shoes which have had to be bought after visiting several independent shops. We did have success with Lelly Kellys as a trainer type but didnt work out.

She has narrow feet and then ultra narrow ankles and then ankle bones that sit low- she also now has one whole size different between her feet.

I had to physically carry her (she is 6) to get her last pair of shoes as she had nothing to put on her feet. Fortunately we were on holiday near a shoe shop who handmake shoes and managed to get a navy pair and I will have to write a note for school as they are only allowed black.

In future I will travel to get them hand made as I figure althoguh they are very expensive it probably works out the same as buying school shoes and trainers etc.

Bunsouttheoven · 18/08/2010 00:02

I sympathise my dd is just 4 & she has v narrow feet too. I get peed off with the assistants in clarks saying 'yeah they seem ok' when I can see they are patently not! I'm going to get her first school pair tomorrow so that should be fun. Finding black pumps for pe is going to be tricky, they all seem to be standard width everywhere.

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