Have nowhere to go now... am cross, love him, but am so cross.
DH is doing a 1 year pt PGDip which was SUPPOSED to finish next month. I asked him not to do the course in the first place, I pleaded with him, because I wanted to try for another baby, but he went ahead anyway, so we put all baby plans on hold for a year (horrible pg with DD, now 2.5, scared it will happen again).
So his course is supposed to be finishing next month, only NOW IT'S NOT. He is way behind with his hand-ins, the course leaders have thrown away all the deadlines because everyone is so behind and NOW they've extended the course by A WHOLE BLOODY YEAR. I didn't think they could do this, but apparently they can.
I have asked him to sit down, look at his workload and set deadlines himself so that he can get the work done by christmas, he sort of agreed to this at one point but now is saying he'll get it done by sept 2011! I am so livid. He won't set deadlines, he just comes home, eats, gives or doesn't give DD a bath, then disappears into spare room all evening reading academic papers (but not producing any written hand-ins), we hardly ever spend any time together as a family - I even spent last sunday with his parents and DD on our own so that he could have time to work, have been to festivals with DD on our own and am going camping in france with DD and my mum. I am so angry. He is pretty wonderful in all other respects, but I want our life back, and I want him back with me and our DD. Just had another row about it, now looking at futon in spare room and contemplating sleeping there tonight as a protest. Expect everyone is asleep by now so won't get any replies anyway (can you tell I'm feeling sorry for myself).
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To go and sleep in the spare room because of DH's bloody post grad course?
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babymutha · 17/08/2010 00:53
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