to feel a little bit hurt by this??

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I went out yesterday with two women. One of them is a childminder who had 2 children with her, I had my son and the other woman had her two children with her. We took all the children to a soft play area. We have done this a few times during the holidays as well as a couple of other outings.

Whilst we were there the childminder said to the other lady present "would you like to come to the zoo tomorrow??" and made no effort to invite me. They then proceeded to talk about the trip for ages whilst completely ignoring me. I'm not so bothered about not being invited, it's just that I felt that it was insensitive to talk about this right in front of me when I wasn't invited. She then did exactly the same thing regarding her hen weekend. I think that if I'm not invited to something then they should have the courtesy to not talk about it right in fron of me.

What do people think??

Yes rude behaviour. Can you avoid her?

I think I will do tbh. Got to see her on Fri as my regular childminder is on holiday for a month so she is having my son for me but this has really upset me. She did it last week aswell and I let it go as I thought it was a one off but if she's going to keep doing it then I don't think I'll bother going out with her, even if she asks.

Is there any chance she didn't ask you because she assumed you wouldn't be able to go. Maybe she thought you were working, or you wouldn't like to come to her hen party?

Are you sure she didn't think you were working or had other commitments tomorrow?

It seems way too rude to be 'just rude' iykwim?

I don't work, I'm at uni and off for the summer. It's not so much that I'm bothered about not being asked. I just felt they were very insensitive. Maybe u have a point about the hen weekend. Could just be for close friends too so could let that one go.