and yes alrma, my aprnets the same wrt to what they have contributed to the house. The agrden is incredible.
WRT to the it's a benefit- what is different now is the state of LA housing from when many tenants took it on years ago; I am pushing 40 nd my aprents moved in a few weeks before my birth. back then, 80% of our town was council hoousing: apart from buying* there were very few options once you needed something bigger than a starter flat- typical industrial town really, each big factory / docks developed with a massive council estate around it.
*That was the plan, but Mum lost a succession of babiues to stillbirth and had to give up her career- legal sec in the days when that was a real achievement (well it is now but YKWIM, we're a lot further down the equal ops line) - and stay bedridden to have me. Women now are so much luckier with out maternity pay etc, even the 9 weeks we had with the older boys- when the people who are older now were making their way the world was very different.
We used to own BTW, then DH got ill and we had to sell to clear the debts and cope with Dh working reduced hours until he was well. Then he went back, we rented a nice place, moved and rented this nice place, then the boys were diagnsoed with ASD.
You make your own luck to an extent and I made I think good luck in that I picked a DH who stood by us and keeps fighting nack, but if we end up in LA housing it would feel as if we reached the end of being able to keep a good face. It's not something most people woudl actively choose, not people like me anyway.