I have a problem with my Health Visitor, i had very bad PND, and through that time she wasn't very helpful, coming into my home and picking one me (Once she actually walked into my house without even making a appointment or knocking the door). Am now better and getting on with my life. The last two times i have seen her, she has been mocking me and belittling me, to the point i was upset and stress out, though she has been doing this the whole time.
I have now asked to change health visitor and going to speak to one tomorrow but don't know if am being unreasonable.
The points that peed me off, was questions like, have i bought my sons school uniform, i told her he was going to breakfast club and was asking what time will he would get up at then.
I had to cancel his appointment for the doctor due to my cousin dying and had to go back home to scotland,which she was making out she didn't believe me.
Also i never got letter for my ds2 for speech and language, but on the day she told me about the letter, i got a letter for ds1 and made a appointment. And they were both seen and nothing is wrong with ds2. She started saying yes but there concern over ds1 speech and language (Even though the letter wasn't for him, and i've been trying for 6 months to contact speech lady as she promised ds1 would get seen once a week in nursery but she never contacted me, or sent out any letter for him until that time)
Then she was going on about yes but st mary's are concerned and what is in place for ds1 apart from the fact ds1 was never going there i rejected there offer and got place into the school (She couldn't even remember the name of the school even though i told her 5 times and lefted a message on my phone) i wanted him too go and i made sure the support is in place for him to start school ( which i had to fight for and went for meeting to get him at least one to one support in school, he might have autism, he is not being statemented because they also feel he doesn't have autism, but were willing to put this in place.)
She also won't listen to me, i've tried telling her about ds1 and how i don't think he has autism that he has improved and most other people don't think so, again i feel that she thinks am making this up etc
I understand due to me having PND that they would have to watch me closely but i don't feel that i should be spoken in this manner and i should have a helpful health visitor, also i know i can't just stop seeing a HV either, i live with the fact of what i did when i had PND and feel guilty about it, but i am building my life up again, my 3 sons are happy, children. Sorry for the rambling hope this makes sense.