OK, so basically this lady has been my friend for a long time, we have been through our "formative" periods together, holidays, flat shared, she was even my bridesmaid...
Since pregnancy I have seen hide nor hair of her, well i can count on one hand the times we have met up, 3 times, twice for dinner, once for a picnic with other friends. We used to see each other probably at least once a fortnight, Now i really do understand that i am not a very interesting prospect whilst pregnant, she is single, im not, she drinks alot, i dont drink at all, and all the other obvious differences of pregnancy and singledom, so as we have drifted apart so to speak, as wopuld be expected, understandable on both sides...
I have surrounded myself with people like minded as I guess she has too - which is fine by me, what i am hating now is she is back on the scene, i am tired (due in a week) and really dont have the resources in myself to deal with her hyperactivity about my baby!! (as nice as that is :o)
This is where i should add that she absolutely loves babies to the point of it being an obsession, now im going to be a mummy, and i will love my baby more than life itself, but im not a babyaholic
She keeps pestering over meeting up, now and after the birth, trips to Paris with the girls, no mention of the baby?! How she cant wait to meet the baby, babysit it etc etc, lovely, but totally unrealistic stuff and annoying in the sense that i seem to have been abandoned for 9 months as i wasnt deemed exciting enough, but now im ready to hatch im a prospect for the diary again - grrrrrrrrrr!!
I dont want to go to Paris with the girls to get hammered, to be honest im looking forward to being a mum and seeing family etc, doing different things that being a mum brings
Anyway rant over, i am sure im not the only one to have found friends to be like this whilst pregnant, i think i just realised today after a zillion texts from her that its very annoying!!!