Hecate - "The thing I have found about large charities is that they exist to exist - iyswim
So they raise money to fund themselves, keep paying the salaries, keep running the offices, and if they've got a bit spare, they might do a little something. But their primary function is to keep themselves running and the largest amount of money by far goes on that.
They may have started off with the idea of helping, but that soon changes.
Perhaps I am just cynical, maybe I am suspicious, but it seems to me that the very well paid directors and managers of these charities are doing very well indeed out of it all."
I think you are very cynical Hecate because that is just not the case with most big charities.For example Christian Aid spend 80% of their total income on funding partners fighting poverty overseas. These partners are rigorously audited to ensure they are spending donor's money wisely.
The other 20% - 19% went on fundraising - they raise £4 for every £1 spent on fundraising, so well worth it - and 1% on governance - the costs associated with the running of the charity.
www.christianaid.org.uk/aboutus/incomeandexpenditure/making-it-count/index.aspx
Your money DOES get through, but it's totally unrealistic to think that things will change quickly when aid agencies are coming up against poor local governance, corruption and red tape. If the aid agencies weren't in Haiti at all, the situation would be a lot worse.