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To use ds prescription

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strawberrycake · 06/08/2010 20:50

My 9 week old ds has been a nightmare to feed from day one, and it got worse and worse with hospital visit for dehydration and a crazy amount of diarrhea. Thankfully we seem to have stumbled on the magic bullet...soya milk. My GP prescribed it and he just started to eat again and he's no longer pooing/ screaming in pain all day. Obviously I'm very happy and told my friend today.

She seemed shocked I got it on prescription free and told me you can buy it off the shelf in the Tesco near her (she did as she's vegan). I didn't know this, it's not on the shelf anywhere near me and it's ordered in specially for me by boots. She said I should pay for it as I pay for formula already and it's cheeky to get it free. I see some logic in this, and I'd expect to pay for his food. On the other hand though if I were to not use the prescription I wouldn't know where to get it, I don't drive, nowhere within an hours walk sells it and the online supermarket I use don't do it. It would be a big trek to bulk buy it. I don't know if it costs the same/ more as I haven't seen it.

Would you use the prescription, or would you find it cheeky? I presumed until today it was a prescription only milk! I guess I could ask boots by me to order it, but they'd probably think I was a nutter. They are lovely down there and great me and know me and do all the repeats for me to pick up when I come in with no effort on my part. I'd have to tell them to stop this and look like a loon to them.

OP posts:
tabouleh · 07/08/2010 21:41

strawberrycake - I am sorry if I have upset you.

I am so sorry you have had a terribly difficult time with your baby. Sad

What I was trying to point out is that your doctor has not followed the guidelines.

There are other formulas (not milk based and not soya) which your doctor should have used first.

It is not a case of making your baby suffer whilst they try other milk based formulas.

eg Neocate.

Whilst you can obviously be grateful for the doctor listening to you etc - you are entitled to ask why they are not following the Chief Medical Officer's advice.

See info above.

Will leave the thread now as I've said my piece and don't want to upset anyone any futher.

tabouleh · 07/08/2010 21:48

OK so I can't leave this comment:

"I am appalled at some of the incredible insensitive comments on here."

whoopstheregoesmymerkin - do you know much about formulas?

This is not a case of Mners wanting a 9-week old baby to suffer FFS.

If a baby has a milk allergy then there are special formulas with non-milk proteins in them. These have be recommended by the Chief Medical Officer since 2004.

Those formulas are meant to be used first before trying Soya.

Knowing this info as various MNers do then what should we do?

Whilst it may be upsetting to OP it is our duty as responsible citizens to point this out.

We can't let a fear of "upsetting" OP mean that we don't pass on this info.

Any issues with soya will be multiplied with long term use - i.e. a short use will be very low risk.

OP can ask her doctor about the non -soya choices. The fact that OP's baby is thriving on soya is possibly indicative of milk allergy - and therefore the doctor should explain the other non-milk formula.

It is her choice whether to do so.

hairytriangle · 07/08/2010 21:48

She's poking her nose in. Use the prescription!

strawberrycake · 07/08/2010 22:09

I'm not upset for the record. Just probably sensitive with all that's gone on, plus not ever being someone who's ever thought about all this before. I guess I've only ever associated dairy/ wheat intolerances with skinny middle class women moaning in restaurants! (Yes I've learnt...) I have no experience in this area at all and it's a bit complex to throw at me all at once. I'm pretty easy going, but defensive of my cub!

OP posts:
strawberrycake · 07/08/2010 22:11

Plan A: Is to discover it was all just a really bad tummy bug and he couldn't handle dairy for a few weeks

sticks finger in ears

la la la la

OP posts:
MumNWLondon · 07/08/2010 22:21

Of course use the prescription.

Although clearly your baby needed a break from cows milk formula, before you use this long term it might be worth asking to be referred to a specialist paediatric nutritionalist etc. There are lots of concerns about soya milk for babies including infertility and future soya allergies.

e.g. My nephew is cows milk intolerant, specialist gave special hypoallergenic formula (much more expensive than soya formula hence GP's reluctant to prescribe) as he said giving soya formula increases risks of later soya allergies.

If you need to use longer term please make sure you get referred appropriately to specialist, GPs are not experts.

As for your vegan friend, words escape me.

MumNWLondon · 07/08/2010 22:28

strawberrykate - you can't compare soya formula to the soya in the asian diet which is naturally fermented soya and anyway it is not the exclusive source of food.

Of course its great that you have solved your baby's diarhea but as I said before please ask GP to be referred to expert and discuss with them. No need to complain.

CheeryCherry · 07/08/2010 22:40

Sorry no time to read the whole thread but I was prescribed Wysoy for my DD a few yrs back, (well I had read an article and asked to give it a go) and it too made an instant difference, we stuck to using it til she was one. Prior to that she had been doubled up in pain, screaming in agony after every feed. Wysoy was a lifesaver, and even though she had been a big baby (10lb) she had not been able to tolerate dairy. Years on and she is fine, loves milk, cheese, yogs with no problems. And yes, I felt a tad guilty accepting prescriptions but hey, don't look a gifthorse etc. I think your 'friend' has different reasons for using it, your DS needs to use it. Best of luck.

wentmad · 07/08/2010 23:07

pls do not feel guilty!

ds1 ended up on sma staydown for reflux and we got that on prescription as well as all his other meds and it was a godsend

mumeeee · 07/08/2010 23:08

Yes of course you should use the prescription. Your GP has given you a prescriptoin for infant soya milk.because your baby has a medical need. So ignore your friend.

Chynah · 07/08/2010 23:42

DD has horrendous refux and was prescribed some 'everything free' formula to see if it helped. I was very hopeful of the 'free' formula saving me a fortune if it did but unfortunately she hated it and refused so I'm back to paying for normal stuff. Use the prescription please :)

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