MrsFC i realise it is fashionable to bash bi-polar as a celebrity illness, but did it ever occur to you that
a) people with bipolar disorder are potentially more likely to go into a creative field where "eccentricity" is more tolerated which then makes any severe cycles more visible?
b) some of those people actually are NOT bipolar, but have less accepted diagnoses and
c) ACTUALLY BEING bipolar is shit. it's Horrible, it means that you will be subject to MANY meds (especially if the first ones don't help, or for example, you are unfortunate enough to have "overshooting" whereby your completely destroying depression CANNOT be medicated with antidepressants EXCEPT in an inpatient setting becasue yu will be too high for normality within a fortnight)
It means that you cannot trust your own mind, and you will be the victim of mental health stigmatisation (which DOES exist, however "trendy" you think the illness is - why else are only 17% of bipolar people in full time employment?)
it means that you may spend large swathes of your life in a psychaitric hospital, which is neither fun nor trendy.
it means that you will likely do things you will later DEEPLY regret, you will hurt your friends and family, and WISH you could take it back, you may end up with MASSIVE debts through actions you could not control, or risk your life through actions that again, you could not control, and you will have to try and put your whole life back together, while at the same time coming down from the manic high into crippling depression.
Plus, of course, you have a 1 in 5 chance of dying as a result of the illness.
No wonder people are queuing up to be diagnosed with it, is there?
I am Bipolar, I have maintained my health for years now, after even more very turbulent, difficult years, and I have worked at high level and also study to a high level (I am currently studying to be a counsellor - BACP accredited, along side my degree in languages, and my postgraduate research qualification) I deeply resent the implication that ANYONE chooses this life!