to be worried about drug-fuelled fb activity

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im a lurker never posted before.... opinions sought

I met this girl at a wedding last year. She was 17 but acted much younger and her parents seemed to keep her on a tight leash. She's my friends cousin.

After we got back she added me as a friend on fb. In the past few days she has posted some really scary seemingly drug fuelled status updates which i initially thought were a joke but now I am a bit worried.. should i tell her cousin or keep my nose out? I wouldnt like to get her into any trouble but she seems so naive and genuinely off her tits : S

My friend is cool and would not alert parents but I dont want her to think im a weird. Friend in question doesnt have fb - she thinks its a load of shite and im inclined to agree

I would mention it... in a roundabout way if I could.. Maybe even jokey then let her see what she's written? So up to her what to do next?

I agree with sanielle

how do you know they are "drug fuelled"?

She could have mental health issues, she could be drunk, she could be just a bit odd....

My bil has mental health issues, if he is having a bad episode he is often accused of being "on drugs".

ta : ) dont want to cause dramarama or spoil her fun (ahem) but she seems out of her depth

miniwedge she has mentioned taking drugs

But surely she has other family members on her facebook?? Why do you need to mention this?

Her parents could be keeping her on a tight leash because of known issues.

miniwedge u are right I do not know the full story. Will keep schtum as its nowt to do with me is it? Just worried and didnt want to be irresponsible and ignore it

YABU

And presumptuous

And interfering

And making narrow minded assumptions

If she was 17 last year then she might be nearly 18 now, her business, not yours.

minx if it was "great night last night we were off our heads on x" I wouldnt be concerned tbh. As you say her business.

Its the fact she seems genuinely upset that I am worried but as said before will not say anything... just wanted impartial perspective : )