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AIBU?

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to be annoyed about the route the charity run is taking

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Northernlurker · 01/08/2010 00:58

10 in our city tomorrow for a fantastic good cause - one very close to my heart after a recent family berevement, death of a friend and serious illness for another friend BUT the route is a nightmare from one persepective. It is going to make it a bit tricky to get to church as our church is basically cut off as are the five others in our area (don't ask - v holy ) Dh and the kids will make it ok but our friends with disabled son will be struggling and most of our old folks won't be able to come as they can't walk too well. Even if you can walk or cycle you've still got to be able to cross the roads to get to the church. We are about 3k in to the route, the race starts at 9 and 8000 are running (which is fab obviously) - this means the road outside is going to be a continuous stream of runners I think. We can go up one set of stairs and across a bridge and down another set but aforementioned disabled and elderly just can't do that. It seems like such a shame - there is NO need at all for the race to take this route, it didn't last year. I think the council are trying to keep it away from the shops - due to pressure from the commercial sector. I sympathise with that but am I asking too much for them to have thought that a street with numerous churches on or near will be quite busy already on a sunday am? Or AIBU?

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BitOfFun · 01/08/2010 01:00

Just stick a cattle prod or similar on the wheelchair and wade in .

Vallhala · 01/08/2010 01:01

Whatever happened to Christian (or other religion's) charity?

Surely those who can't make it to church for that ONE Sunday will exercise a little forgiveness given that the run is for a good cause.

YABU. Neither activity is a necessity but imho the run will do far more good than attending church. As the Father of my church used to say, "Prayer can take place anywhere, you don't need to be in fromt of me to do it".

Northernlurker · 01/08/2010 01:02

It's not my wheelchair and my lovely friend could never be that brutal. I think she'll just stay at home and miss out on one of her few bits of social contact

I hate being grumpy about something so worthwhile - but it's bloody annoying!

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Northernlurker · 01/08/2010 01:04

Vallhala - I don't just pray in church on Sunday! Christian charity doesn't mean making a doormat of yourself and getting to church is as important to me as running for charity is for those folks doing it.

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Vallhala · 01/08/2010 01:09

Never meant to suggest that you did just pray in church on Sunday, Northernlurker, sorry.

I just think that it's worth accepting that on just this one Sunday some may not be able to attend as the cause is a good one.

Maybe organise a get together, be that social or a prayer meeting or whatever, sometime in the week to compensate?

Northernlurker · 01/08/2010 01:13

Oh ok then
There is a prayer meeting on Thursday and also our evening service but neither of those are as 'family' oriented (in a very broad sense) as the morning service. It's just the idea that there is an actual barrier preventing (or almost) you getting to church that's upsetting me I think.

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Vallhala · 01/08/2010 01:18

I can see your point, NL. Sunday services are generally far more family friendly. (Though why some, especially rural churches like that in my village, only have one really family friendly Sunday service a month is a mystery to me!).

But hey, think of all the money, goodwill and publicity that the run will be creating for the cause.

Clothilde · 01/08/2010 07:34

We live in the same town, Northernlurker!

Myleetlepony · 01/08/2010 08:21

Isn't this a bit NIMBY? If the race went another route then others would be inconvenienced for other reasons.

azazello · 01/08/2010 08:35

YANBU. Presumably the run will be starting about 10 (at the same sort of time as church services) and will take around an hour so very much the same sort of length of time as a service... very unfair then to block off access to churches rather than shops. I hope you can manage to get there and get your neighbour there somehow.

tethersend · 01/08/2010 08:35

What would Jesus do?

LadyBiscuit · 01/08/2010 08:36

Most people will run 10k in around an hour. What time does church start? If it's only 3k into the race, most people will have passed by 9.30 very latest

Northernlurker · 01/08/2010 08:52

LB - The race starts at 9 so yes some people shuld have passed - church isn't till 10.45. As there are 8000 people taking part though I'm not sure how long it will take to get them all going.

What would Jesus do - I'm not sure - as He was perfect and without sin he'd doubtless rise above it in a way I'm not managing

I don't want anyone to be inconvenienced. In a city as ancient and complex as ours it's actually quite hard to pick a route that totally blocks off access to any one area. You can nearly always go the other way. It's just that today they have managed to plan a route that does just that!

Clotilde - hope you're not trapped in your home!

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LadyBiscuit · 01/08/2010 08:57

Everyone will have passed. Honestly, you're worrying about nothing. Even someone walking will have long gone by the time your friends want to go to church (average walking speed is 5k/hour so even someone walking really slowly will have passed the 3k mark by 10am)

Northernlurker · 01/08/2010 09:05

I hope so. Why are the roads shut till 2 though? The council say they will open some roads from 10.15 - from what you're saying people will have finished by then! Anyway sounds like we'll be able to cross the jolly road anyway

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LadyBiscuit · 01/08/2010 11:05

I guess they have to clear up and allow for real stragglers but they shouldn't get in your way

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