Last year one of my secondary schoolfriends married her boyfriend of 4 years. She was fairly young - very early 20s - and for most of their relationship she had been away at uni 100 miles away, and they had never lived together, so we were a bit surprised at the engagement, and there were comments made about visas (he's from a West African country). Anyway, the wedding was lovely and afterwards I put the pictures up on Facebook.
I then got a call from an old friend from primary school who had seen the pictures saying 'how do you know 'Fred' (name of groom). It turned out that my primary school friend had gone out with 'Fred' at the same time he was going out with his now wife. Fred asked pschool friend for large amounts of money - hundreds of pounds - which she initially complied with, but then refused as it went on, so he dumped her. At that time, my sschool friend was 100 mils away at uni. A mutual friend verified that pschool friend had had a boyfriend who was bad news and demanded money.
I didn't say anything to sschool friend - they were already married so it was a bit late, and another friend who I confided in said it was best to say nothing. Problem is I feel really guilty. She's so happy with her husband and is planning to move a couple of hours away from her family because of his job. I had to block her on Facebook because I feel really weird about seeing her statuses saying how loved up she is. I don't see her much anymore as we live far apart, so most communication is via internet now. She was away at uni for 3 years, so I wonder how many other girls Fred went out with at that time.
Have I done the wrong thing in not saying anything to my friend?