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to pelt my neighbour's house with eggs?

17 replies

auntpolly · 29/07/2010 09:14

I'm so angry! I really want to vent without being arrested. Pelting their house with eggs seems like the best course of action..

A couple of days after we moved into our flat, our next door neighbours had a really loud party in their garden. Our bedrooms are at the back of the house, so all of us (including 3 month old DS and 4yr old DD) were wide awake, the music was making everything shake. Plus there was lots of screaming and shouting in the garden. We left it till the early hours and then DH went round and rang the bell. They then turned the music up. DH held the bell down and started banging on the door and shouting, eventually it was turned down but no one answered.

The neighbours have 3 teenage kids, and 2 smaller ones in primary school. It turns out the parents had gone on holiday and left the teenagers who'd had a party. When the parents got back DH went round and had a very polite chat with them, something along the lines of we were all young once so I don't mind a party, but maybe they could turn it down a bit and go inside before 4am. The parents were nice, but they have ignored us since. In the few hours after DH spoke to them a dent appeared on the top of the boot of his car. It's definitely an act of vandalism, it might not have been the teenagers next door but the timing seems very coincidental.

Anyway, the parents have gone on holiday again this week. This happens every school hol but on Saturday the party was ridiculously loud, at 4am we decided to contact environmental health. They already had 3 complaints from other houses and went round. They banged on the door for 30 mins and eventually one of the teenagers answered the door and was extremely aggressive but did turn the music down.

I don't know why this adds to my annoyance, but the family next door are very well off (the kids have really irritating plummy accents) and it seems like the teenagers have been spoilt in lots of ways and they just can't empathise with anyone. I know this is not a symptom of richness though! But they can afford to go out, so not sure why the insist on parties every night at home. Also, the way they go on in the garden (running about naked, talking utter bollocks) they've got to be on something as well as drinking.

Anyway (nearly done) last night we were being kept up again at 2:30am and were both not looking forward to the prospect of getting less than 3 hours sleep and then doing a full day's work (again) while the kids next door sleep off their party. So we called environmental health again, this time they came round and the kids wouldn't answer the door and turned the music up.

All they can do this stage is serve them with a notice to "desist" within a given timeframe.

Should I buy two dozen eggs and fire away?

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Tee2072 · 29/07/2010 09:18

No, because it is an act of vandalism to egg someone's house. Not to mention very childish.

Next time ring the police. Especially if you suspect illegal drugs.

nikkidale · 29/07/2010 09:21

Report them to your local Community Police - if someone reports a siilar issue to me, I go round when it is happening, and then speak to the parents as well. Nothing like embarassing a parent, especially if they are unaware of the issues.

The 'being on something' will be something that your local policing team will be interested in too, so don't be afraid to get them on board.
Did you report the criminal damage to the Police? all fuel for the fire IMO, I would be round there like a shot dragging the teens up by their short and curlies if someone called me out for it.

Environmental Health should be taking this seriously as there are many people complaining, perhaps make a diary of problems?

Keep complaining to the council and EH, IME sometimes they hope the problem sorts itself out!

No real help on the eggs thing though... Might make you feel better in the short term... But it might backfire if they report it...

auntpolly · 29/07/2010 09:22

You're right Tee, I can't run away after with two kids anyway!

It was actually the police that put us through to environmental health, they don't deal with noise disturbance any more.

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AhickeyfromKenickie · 29/07/2010 09:25

Second calling the Police. They won't be fobbed off by no one answering the door. If you egg, they'll retaliate, and it'll never end.
My neighbour is exactly the same, music starts about 9am on a Saturday (loud enough to make the things on my mantlepiece jump), and if I'm lucky she'll turn it off on a Sunday evening. I have to sit on my hands to stop myself keying her car. I can't cope with it any more so I'm moving. Very sad because I love my little house .

auntpolly · 29/07/2010 09:27

Thanks Nikki. I'll give the community police a call today. We just assumed after our first call that they wouldn't be able to help. We didn't report the criminal damage because apart from the timing we've got nothing else to implicate them.

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AhickeyfromKenickie · 29/07/2010 09:27

Sorry, posted before saw comment about police not dealing with noise, didn't know that. I've called them out for noise before so thought you still could, sorry.

FakePlasticTrees · 29/07/2010 09:30

Call the police - and say you think you saw drugs been dealt in the garden, but it's dark and your not sure etc. don't wait until 3:20am - call at midnight then call again to the EH if it carries on.

Failing that, if they are partying in the garden, a hose pipe directed over the fence at the girl with the most complex looking hair would be more appropriate than eggs...

nikkidale · 29/07/2010 09:31

Ahickey they will deal with it if there is more than one call to them, although their first call is to tell you to call EH.

auntpolly speak to the other neighbours, and ask them to report it too, the more complaints the better!

The timing of the damage would be enough to warrant someone 'having a word' with the family

IMoveTheStars · 29/07/2010 09:31

Can you speak to a local CSO or actually go into your local station? If ou suspect drug use and they're having parties til 4am then surely they'll do something??

Don't do the eggs, you'll feel especially stupid when the police turn up at the door after you've been reported for vandalism

FakePlasticTrees · 29/07/2010 09:33

oh, and if they are partying until 4am and then you're up at 7am, what about a taste of their own medicine: this at full blast in your house. And go out. With it on a timer to go off every 30 mins. So they can't sleep.

IMoveTheStars · 29/07/2010 09:43

FPT

excellent

sapphireblue · 29/07/2010 09:45

Mow your lawn 15 times very loudly at 8am whilst listening to the funky chicken at top volume.

Definitely call the police and say you suspect drugs are being taken at the parties.

auntpolly · 29/07/2010 10:09

FPT, if they're still high though, they might actually enjoy it!

I have decided to pop into the local police station later. The kids go saucer eyed at police (DD has a police dress up that she's never out of) so it will entertain them for a bit as well.

Thanks everyone for talking me out of the egg lobbing.

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2shoes · 29/07/2010 10:13

yabu
call the police
having had my house egged for 3 years by the shits up the road, I don't even find it slightly funny

Honeywitch · 29/07/2010 10:22

I second the noise retaliation but get ALL the neighbours to join in!

BarmyArmy · 29/07/2010 10:59

Just a thought - are you planning on moving anytime soon?

Just that the involvement of the Environmental Health people can apparently appear on a search done by a solicitor when you look to sell your house.

If you don't own it and/or don't plan to move anytime soon - nothing to worry about.

I agree you need to do something though - selfish neighbours are incredibly unpleasant and tricky to manage. I think you need to record/audio/video these incidents and keep a log and show them to the parents when they return.

tokyonambu · 29/07/2010 11:11

Suggest to the teenagers that they might post an invitation to an open party at the house on Facebook (or do it yourself) and move into a hotel for the night. After the house has been completely trashed, the parents might get the hint.

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