DS 2:8 months went to nursery today.
When we arrived the 0-3 unit was closed up for major building work and the unit had been moved the the over 3's unit (closed for the summer) without any parents knowing.
Not a major problem but a bit unsettling as its very different and lots of unfamilar things etc.
Anyway DS seemed ok, went off for breakfast etc.
I asked the staff if he could have an earier sleep before lunch then after if needed as he had had a nightmare in the night and was really tired.
When I arrived to pick him up they said he had been 'found' crying on and off throughout the day. This is VERY VERY unlike him. The first time he was found sat at a computer on his own, the second curled up in a chair with the canopy over the top They said he was unable to explain why.
They also said he had slept over lunch, missing it, was then offered lunch after he woke on his own, he refused it just drinking the juice from the fruit salad dessert.
DS is a very poor eater. He has just started eating much better with his peers but has a fortified milk and is under a dietition.
He eat a good tea.
I discovered his milk still in his bag after his key worker couldn't remember if he had been given it.
So it seems he eat nothing from 8:30 - 4pm, unclear as to how much he drunk.
This is the second time we have had an issue. When he was 10 months, 1 milk feed was missed. They did say sorry and said new procedures were now being followed.
I am cross. Scared also as my 6 month old starts 1 day a week in september. I feel so so bad.
AIBU to be so upset about this. I know it was a hard day for the staff but I am so upset. The manager was very sorry and said she would be having 'words.'
Whats the best thing to do.