DS is 11 and goes to secondary schook in september. I have been allowing more and more freedom (drip feeding) and a couple of weeks ago he went to cinema unsupervised with a friend. It went well, they managed the busses well etc and he enjoyed it.
So they have arranged to go next wednesday. First it was just the two of them but then two girls from the class ended up being invited. DS is particulary fond of one of the girls (first crush I think) and I think it was kind of like a "foresome date" in a childish kind of way.
Then, the other lad invited ANOTHER girl - so DS invited another boy (another good friend). so now there is 6 of them going.
I've just been on his facebook however and DS has changed his mind and asked this other friend not to go, saying he'll pay for him to go to cinema another time as long as he doesn't go with them on wednesday. The boy said he still wanted to go so DS told him to stop being awkward and said he was no longer invited.
I'm really disapointed in DS. I think this is all down to the fact that he wants less attention being taken from himself with this girl.
AIBU to tell him to stop being nasty and insist he follows through his invite?