DP doesn't like kissing

[foreverastudent]

AIBU to be pissed off with DP of 5 years who has just told me he doesn't like kissing?

I love a 'snog' because sometimes it might end up in a passionate night and sometimes it might not (me and partner live separately, both with children). I think kissing is part of fore-play, even if it doesn't end up quite where you want it to.

Does he like fucking and eating pussy? That can make up for it .

pmsl @ expat

Personally, I could live without snogging. But the no eating pussy would be a dealbreaker right up there with small cock and 2-pump chump.

God I love snogging. I used to snog and snog and snog. for hours. when i went clubbing and 'got off with someone'.
Dh and i do a bit of snogging. but not enough.

'Just' told you ???
Give him a good blow job and then the lack of kissing won't seem so bad.
God I love giving bj's !!

He's a bit like an old dog who has had enough of chasing sticks.

So, no there's not that much of anything else either.

I think I'd find a new 'd' p.

but you can't replace/replicate kissing, can you ?
its no good us recommending a rabbit or anything. because its kissing thats the thing here.

I think you need to get to the root of why he's not that keen on anything physical (from what you say).

You say "old dog who has had enough of chasing sticks"... does that mean that you turn him down quite often and he's got discouraged? or that he is very tired?

I can't believe how many people/people's partners don't like kissing

Kissing is the most intimate, tender physical expression of love for another person.

I love a good old-fashioned snog with DP. Even if it doesn't lead to sex it's just so good. And it shows me that he still fancies me.

What do you lot do for foreplay then? Is it just a case of 'hop right on'.

Sounds horribly unromantic and impersonal.

Mmmm, I love snogging. I could kiss for hours

he is v tired

and I dont think he was ever a very sexual person in the first place

I hate thinking that he's spent years kissing me and not been enjoying it. I suppose it's like a guy finding out his girlfriend has been faking it.

I love a good snog dp however only in sex. Kissing makes up a huge part of a relationship in terms of intimacy IMO and knowing he wants me/finds me attractive. I wish I was kissed more tbh I just gave birth to his son I deserve to be kissed god damn it! IMHO of course

I sympathise op

I love kissing, dh never has . Sympathise with op...it makes you wonder if he's been faking it for the last few years or if it's sudden and there's a reason behind it. Think maybe talking about it might help you get some answers rather than making reasons up in your head and potentially getting paranoid and upset about it.

any excuse to play this

Tell him it's fine because actually you don't like shagging.

Might change his tune.

I only kiss whilst actually having sex, not big on it never have been unless I was seriuosly inebriated. I can kiss, technically, but I don't enjoy it. dh would snog all day long I do feel guilty as I know it upsets him