Bit of background. DD is 22 months. DP works full time and I work part time in a pub and am at home with DD during the week.
She is still bf and if DP and I are both around and she's upset she will want me. DP puts her to bed every night though and when I'm at work he has no problems comforting her. They have a lovely close relationship.
So tonight he had plans to go to the cinema. Fine with me. I get in from work and he asks how long will the pie I'm making take as he has to leave at 7pm. I start making (awesome) pie.
Halfway through said pie-making my sister (who lives abroad and I rarely get to speak to) rang. DP has issues with her over some previous selfish and hurtful behaviour by her towards me. I get on well with her now and we both have daughters so I want to make an effort for them. I started chatting to her.
DD wanted to come in the kitchen so DP removed her (because of obvious burny thing risks), shut the kitchen door, and she had a bit of a tantrum and cried for me.
I finished talking to my sister, assuming that DP would settle/distract DD. When I got off the phone 5 minutes later he had a major go at me. He called me selfish for leaving her crying and said that I was prioritising my sister over my child.
He said I should have told my sister I would call her back and come to DD. And that I don't appreciate how hard it is for him when she cries for me.
As far as I was aware I was cracking on with the time limited meal and catching up with my sister at the same time and he was handling DD. I genuinely didn't think she needed both of us (although in the interests of full disclosure she was crying harder than usual).
Oh and then I called him a prick and said he would never be able to make me feel like anything other than a good mother.
So.......what do you lot reckon??
Was I in the wrong??
Sorry for blethering and thank you if you're still reading