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To wish more places would have this policy about photos?

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dilemma456 · 18/07/2010 09:04

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SeaTrek · 18/07/2010 09:07

Very sensible!

lolapoppins · 18/07/2010 09:10

Finally, a class taking a sensible approach! Did anyone actually take their child out?

Ds dance school has a no photo policy because someone kicked off years ago about other parents taking photos of thier children. It's madness. It's so lovely to be able to have photos od your children doing classes etc.

muminthemiddle · 18/07/2010 09:15

Sounds very sensible to me.

My dd dances and tbh I refused to pay £10 for each photograph of her at her latest event, taken by a complete stranger, I might add. Why can't parents be allowed to photogragh their own child-madness.

ProfYaffle · 18/07/2010 09:25

I think you've answered your own question - it's the £10 fee!

SloanyPony · 18/07/2010 09:28

I like the approach of favouring the wishes of the majority, not the minority. You are all fee paying customers, after all.

SkiHorseWonAWean · 18/07/2010 09:30

Brilliant!

Please bump this post at intervals today so it gets read as many times as is possible and then hopefully more people who run these types of schemes will pick up on the idea!

TitsalinaBumSquash · 18/07/2010 09:32

Great idea!

We had something similar last week as DS2 playschhol closing party, the lady in charge just said 'if anyone has any objections to photos being taken please remove your child, obviously the children are playing so if you take a picture your likley to get another child in the shot as well please be aware of this when uploading to facebook and the like as some parents object to thier children being on social networking sites.'

Very sensible.

Nobody removed thier child.

proudnsad · 18/07/2010 09:34

Wow are you serious, did she say that word for word? Brave woman! Totally agree though and she should become a poster girl for common sense.

gillybean2 · 18/07/2010 09:36

I doubt any parent is likely to take their child and walk out at the start of the class. Would be much nicer if they said this the week before to save any embarrassment to the parent/child.

We had a parent at my ds's school object to photos when her dd started. No-one was allowed to take photos during the Christmas play. Funily enough she changed her tune when she realised no-one, including herself, was allowed to take photos of any school event. Plus the school found it really hard to police. Because what do you do if a parent whips out a camera or phone during the performance? Are the teachers expected to march across the hall, climb ove rthe chairs/parents, and remove the camera/phone from the parent?

The school now seems to put any child who is not meant to be in photos in a full face mask, stands them at the side of the stage, and usually behind several taller children so they can't be easily seen by anyone. This is if the parent refuses to remove them from the performance.

I know there are genuine cases where, for whatever reason, parents are trying to protect their child. But it is simply unfair on every other child and parent there and they need to consider that when they make this request.

dilemma456 · 18/07/2010 09:57

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edam · 18/07/2010 10:26

There are valid reasons for not allowing children to be photographed - families escaping domestic violence, or children who have been taken into care because of abusive parents for example.

Thing is, you can't expect the school to single out that child or tell everyone else exactly why photography is not allowed. That would be a breach of confidentiality.

Completely different to fussy parents who are just being PITA, obviously, but where there are good reasons, you shouldn't be told, IYSWIM.

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