Uphill struggle

[brownhorse]

DH and I had a walk after fish and chip lunch on Sunday. We all enjoyed the lunch DD 1yr and DS 2yr except DH who said he felt a bit sick. We walked up a hill but he moaned all the way up and most of the way down. Even our 2 yr old son enjoyed the walk and was great all the way. Right at the end even though I had both children I fell over in some mud. He said I nearly injured DD and we ended having a big row which went on and on and on. Am I unreasonable to make him walk when he has not great balance? Btw this happens all the time on outings.

Why does he not have great balance?

I'm confused

I think you are unreasonable to "make" another adult do something they clearly don't enjoy. If he always moans when you go out for a walk, why not just go yourself and the children, and meet up with him again later?

I'm also confused, but on the whole I would agree with AMumInScotland, to make him do something he doesn't enjoy. He said he was feeling a bit sick, and I'm not sure what you meant about 'he has not great balance', but it sounds like a walk up and down a hill was perhaps not the best choice for a family activity.

You could have just taken the kids on yor own, or chosen something to do that you all wanted to do?

I think the row about the falling over has actually very little to do with it??

D

Well if he finds it phsyically hard to walk then YABU, but if he just doesn't like it then YANBU, I do things with the kids all the time that I don't like, but they enjoy. THat's life init?