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AIBU?

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to ask new date to give up smoking?

27 replies

zookeeper · 11/07/2010 16:07

I had a internet date last night - nice bloke and I would like to see him again.

When I met him he was smoking: I was surprised and he said he had mentioned it on his profile which I had missed.

I smoked really heavily for years and it took me years to give up - last night really took me back to when I was a smoker - the smell, the finding places to sit outside etc etc and although I shrugged it off so as not to be rude I really didn't like it.

so AIBU to ask him if he would give up? He did say he'd love to a few times through the evening (in between puffs lol). FWIW I think I am but it would be interesting to see what you all think.

OP posts:
PfftTheMagicDragon · 12/07/2010 10:43

Well of course you are free to make a decision that you do not date smokers.

But you can't start instructing him on how he should change for you.

femalevictormeldrew · 12/07/2010 10:43

YABU I'd say it will be the first and last date if you do

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