Hello everyone. Thanks for all the useful and kind advice on my earlier post. We saw the consultant allergist this afternoon.
DS had the skin prick test done. They tested for the normal common allergens plus brasil nuts because of my allergy. They didn't have sunflower oil which I think he had reacted to but tested him for sunflower seeds instead. He did get a positive reaction to milk, as expected. I can't remember what the size of the mark was. Although both of his arms were very blotchy all over and there did seem to be a very small reaction to the sunflower, all of the other tests were classed as negative.
We then saw the doctor. He was nice and v knowledgeable but DS was a bit fractious and the appointment was quite rushed. So I do feel really annoyed with myself because I didn't ask quite a few questions that I had planned to ask, despite the fact that I wrote them down. Also, the advice was significantly different from the advice of the dietician (as you guys warned) so I am kind of confused. In particular, I forgot to ask what the chance was of him still being allergic to one of the foods tested if the test was his first and only exposure, or whether it was now safe for me to give him these things.
Basically, he advised us to avoid dairy with him and said he would see us again in 6 - 8 months. He suggested we all (including DD) drink soya milk at home to avoid the risk of him being exposed by accident and said not to worry about the oestrogen reports with soya (not sure how I feel about this). He didn't have a strong opinion about me giving up dairy (as the dietician advised) but seemed to assume that I wanted to stop BF because I am back at work (not the case). We discussed epipens and he considered prescribing because we travel quite a lot but he thought it was potentially more problematic and more of a stigmna and that there was a risk of it being used unnecessarily and the risk of anaphylaxis was small. I didn't push for one. We discussed DS's eczema and he said to mositurise lots, use hydrocortisone where necessary and he gave us some samples to try. He said his view was that food allergies were often developed via the skin.
He also discussed the Leap Study with us and said it might be worth us considering DS taking part. I'd be interested to hear what other people think about this? I am quite kean but am worried about the ethics of volunteering him for a clinical trial when he cannot decide for himself.
Overall, when we came away, I was relieved about the other negative results but I felt really awful because I felt that part of me was disappointed. I discussed it with DH and realised that, actually, what I feel is disappointed he didn't either get an all clear or a result that was serious enough to mean that we would need an epipen. Without it, I feel that I am going to live in fear of him having a bad reaction and the nusery panicking or an ambulance not getting there on time. I know that the risk is tiny and I'm sorry for being over dramatic when I know lots of you do have to deal with this as a much greater risk, but I am going to find leaving him at nursery now so painful and frightening and that's why I have come away feeling bad. In that respect, this was my worst case scenario. Every day I am going to be afraid that he will have a bad reaction and I have failed to push to keep him safe.
Sorry, this turned out to be long again and overdramatic. I'm really tired tonight and I'm sure I'll feel better in the morning.