Hi,
Sorry for long posts. I've been trying to work out what's been going on with my baby and would appreciate if anyone who does have an allergy baby had a similar experience because I've cut tonnes of things from my diet and I don't feel I'm getting anywhere.
My little girl is nearly 7 months old now. She used to sleep really well at night up until 13 weeks and was mostly happy and didn't cry too much. She's had reflux from 3 weeks old - both silent but also used to throw up what felt like a whole feed, sometimes several times a day. That got better at 10 week and became like normal baby spit up. She also had baby acne which again cleared up around the same time. She's always been a comfort feeder and is 91st percentile for weight.
Then we hit the 4 month sleep regression, caught covid and also moved house and things got so much harder. She became quite fussy at the breast, squirming around and then the night wake ups got more frequent (hourly or less). She wasn't happy to play by herself and moaned a lot. She cried more, especially if I tried to do anything other that feed her to sleep. And the naps were 30 minutes and unable to be extended meaning she was just overtired every day. She looked so tired but just couldn't sleep anymore. And when she woke overnight she seems to have lots of gas and was straining a lot without anything coming out and went back to doing poos overnight and generally more frequently. It was also so difficult to burp her when previously the air came up easy. Then she developed eczema mildly but all over her body. The poos were explosive a lot of the time and had a strange liquid green outline. They stopped being seedy and became more mucousy. She also had permanent nasal congestion since having covid.
I gave up soya and dairy and a few days later oats because I felt she got worse after swapping to oat milk. I kept a food diary and noticed she was happier after I stopped eating hummus everyday. There was no immediate, definitely this helped feeling but the poos seemed to get less and she seemed to get a bit happier the nasal congestion cleared after a week and a half and so did the eczema. I made a few mistakes with soya and felt things got worse when I did (more poos and more straining and a purple/red spot rash around the eyes mostly). Then I did a dairy rechallenge after 4 weeks dairy free and stayed on dairy for 2 weeks. The poos went back to being seedy and her skin looked really good, but she seemed more gassy and sort of squirmy all the time, hyper and the nasal congestion came back immediately. So after 2 weeks I cut it out again. The nasal congestion got a bit better but hasn't gone this time. She's still gassy but a bit less and absolutely nothing I've done has made a difference to night sleep or the reflux which bothers her. Her eczema has been worse since I've been back dairy free this time. I've since cut out eggs and nuts but she's still unhappy. She can nap for longer now but not sure if that's just developmental. I've started weaning to see if I can pick up any reactions better that way but she's so fussy most days I feel like I don't have enough good days for a comparison and her skin is up and down all the time. Plus teething thrown in the mix.
Could this all just be normal baby fluctuations? I'm beginning to think that I've been over interpreting or maybe it's to do with something else (she has a bad latch because I have a fast flow and she over feeds or maybe just the reflux that bothers her etc).
Can anyone shed light?