Hello,
I wonder if you have any advice or can signpost me please?
I’m a sleep consultant with an understanding of reflux and allergies but I'm not an expert!
I have a sleep client with a 10 month old baby who is being treated with omeprazole for reflux, having been on ranitidine previously.
He’s been on Omeprazole for over 2 weeks with no improvement.
To me, there are two options and only one seems likely;
A. He’s a very difficult baby who won’t sleep and is sick a lot
B. He has an undiagnosed CMA and is in living hell.
I’m 99.9% sure it’s B.
The poor mum is uninformed and overwhelmed, she doesn’t seem to have done any research of her own and is just in survival mode.
She contacted me as she hasn’t had more than 2 hours straight sleep since birth and is being fobbed off by various doctors who don’t take her seriously.
She wants to push for more/different medication because her friend’s child is on it (Nexium/lansoprazole).
I’ve explained it is another similar PPI and so probably won’t change anything if omeprazole isn’t helping and that we need to identify the root cause of the reflux, rather than mask it with medication.
She is struggling to grasp that the reflux is a symptom and not an illness in itself.
I’ve said that it’s likely to be CMPA but she doesn’t seem to be taking this onboard as the GP's as dismissive and as a result she’s at breaking point.
She’s tried Similac, Nutrimigen and others in the past and hasn’t seen a big improvement, but I don’t think she persevered for long enough to see results, I've said it can take weeks to recover...
It’s got worse since weaning, not better.
He’s currently;
He is on a generic anti-reflux formula
Is projectile vomiting several times a day
He only sleeps upright in the pram
He only sleeps for 2 hours at a time
He screams inconsolably for several hours a day
Has terrible wind
Has a distended tummy
Is immediately and violently sick after yoghurt
She basically describes him as ‘the devil’, he’s constantly miserable, clawing at her and crying.
He doesn’t have eczema and he’s not underweight, so he doesn’t seem to meet the GP's ‘symptom checklist’
She’s at her wits end.
She’s finally spoken to her GP again tonight who dismissed her again and said she can try reducing dairy in his diet if she wants, but to stick with the aptimel anti-reflux.
GP has taken 50+ hours to return her call from Monday.
She saw an NHS dietician months ages ago who said because he wasn’t underweight, it simply couldn’t be CMA.
She has been trying to wean and he’s constantly sick.
😟
Am I right in thinking this is all terrible advice?
I obviously can’t help her teach him to sleep while he’s in pain and I’m at a loss for how to progress.
Please give me some advice of where to signpost her?
I suggested Allergy U.K. helpline but she doesn’t have the energy reserves to make a fuss because she's so exhausted.
Am I right - this isn’t normal ‘infant reflux’?
I’m certain that she needs to do a strict elimination diet but the doctor just suggested she ‘could try reducing dairy’ while telling her to continue to use a CM formula.
To me this is like saying to someone with a peanut allergy not to eat dry roasted peanuts but its still ok to eat a bloody Snickers?
Does this sound like the right way to progress, regardless of what the GP has said?
I’ve told her to use the unopened Similac she still has, to try oat milk in his porridge and to cut out all dairy for at least 10 days and to avoid soya milk incase he reacts to that too.
Obviously I'm not a medical professional so it feels wrong to try to override a GP, but this feels wrong to me.
Does this sound like the right advice to give her?
I need to give her the confidence to get to the root cause but she’s been so constantly undermined and unempowered even by her boyfriend that’s she hasn’t got a voice to advocate for him and for herself.
Am I missing anything?
I can't help her baby to learn to sleep while he's in pain, but she is struggling to 'get' that we need to fix the cause of the pain and even dairy free weaning is overwhelming her.
Any advice much appreciated!
Thank you in advance!