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I think the baby is allergic to pollen/grass. Please help, I could cry.

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WhiteTrash · 28/03/2012 19:16

Hes currently anaphylactic to eggs and milk, possibly nuts.

Hes been having weekly reactions for the last 3-4 weeks and we've been buggered if we can figure out what to. Today they have stepped up a gear.

People have been suggesting pollens, Ive been saying no because I just cant contemplate it.

Except today, he had two reactions which were worse (but still mild, they are definitely mild so far), we took DS1 to the doctors, so the baby was in the buggy only getting out when we were in the surgery. By the time we were home, his mouth was red with reactive allergic rash, as were his hands.

This afternoon I put the kids outside, he was on a blanket on the grass (but he bum shuffles so was close if not on the grass at times) for about 10 minutes, maybe less. Then his face really reacted. He had hives this time but not big ones, small Ive never seen small ones before clusters of them Usually they are fairly big, but not this time. Typically, 20 minutes after anti-histamine it calms to exzema- which was not there before.

Hes 10 months old, so he is at the age where he moves and puts everything in his mouth. We havent yet been to friends houses with babies since the whole allergy fiasco began, Ive been putting it off a little as friends have babies and toddlers and they know theres milk, yoghurt and butter fingers on their toys and furniture. Ive said its not a problem, the weather is warming up soon, when it does we'll come over and take the kids outside in a more controlled environment, with select rinsed toys.

How can we do that now? How can a child have any kind of fun life if they cant go outside in the summer months? Does it come to that? Do you have to keep them in all summer? How does this work?

We were supposed to go camping this year, we were all really excited about it, but I guess thats gone out the window?

Help, please because Im feeling very bleak about the whole thing.

(For info in case it is needed, the allergy specialist was terrible, really bad. So Im waiting on a referral to Eastbourne. Thats was 3 months ago, and I chased it up yesterday, told to call the surgery on friday see where they have got with it. He see's a dermatologist, so can contact her if necessary).

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CharminglyOdd · 28/03/2012 19:24

Poor you :( I'm sure people who are vastly more experienced will reply in a minute. I can only offer my own experience (no children). I have a pollen allergy and get bumps particularly if I lack self control and scratch if I sit bare legged on the grass and pick fruit that I have a problem with. I tend to wear very loose cotton trousers and long tops to minimise contact. Obviously very difficult with a toddler who can't self-control from touching grass but perhaps he can learn as he grows up? I still go outdoors, dosed up with antihistamines, and enjoy myself :)

We also used to holiday at the seaside as it was better (apparently) for pollen allergies. Could you camp somewhere near the sea with hard-standing (concrete) pitches and weight tents down the old-fashioned way?

WhiteTrash · 28/03/2012 19:30

We will be holidaying (thats such a wank word) near the seaside, however it is on the grass. But thank you for the suggestion because I did not know that was possible. Although all the ones I have looked at are on grass, but you never know.

Thanks for reassuring me that you still go outside!

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CharminglyOdd · 28/03/2012 21:20

:) I do. Scratching the hives is, still, a problem. Might be worth using some kind of soothing cream. I also find having a shower before bedtime or when finally coming indoors and changing into clean clothes helps.

Re: hard standing pitches. I should have said, I meant caravan pitches as you can get mixed caravan-camping sites. My parents always book hard standing for their caravan but I don't see any reason why you can't pop a tent on one of those pitches.

mumat39 · 28/03/2012 23:29

Whitetrash, hello.

I can't offer any advice, but I just wanted to say I completely understand how you're feeling. My DD has loads of allergies which we started to find out about when she was 6.5 months old. It seemed that every food I tried her on, she reacted to. At 2 she started to get hayfever and I did cry :( It just felt like one thing after another. I get hayfever and have had it all my life, and it makes me feel miserable so I feel really awful for DD that this is another thing that I've given her.

Sorry I can't help, but by all accounts anti-histamines are safe for long term use and we've been told to give DD a non sedating one for the whole of the summer as she also gets wheezy with it. The wheezing started last year and that also made me cry. I also think that with DD the antihistamine seems to have a cumulative efffect on her. We give her NeoClarityn (Desloratidine) for hayfever and we also have Piriton for emergencies. I don't like keeping her topped up on medication but what else can you do?

take care.

deaconred · 29/03/2012 00:12

hi whitetrash
my ds3 age 11 has multiple allergies,whole nut programme,pollens,cats ,dogs,house dust mites etc ,it took doctors until dec 2011 to finally do skin patch tests,its very worrying but you will cope and it does get to be second nature for you to always be checking labels etc,we have to carry epipens everywhere in case of anypalatic shock ,anti histamines etc all necessary.hes also asthmatic another knock on from the allergies.i know its all abit overwhelming at first but youll both be fine,try not to worry too much
best wishes

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