my 3.9 yo DD who is allergic to CMP is due to start reception in Sept 2011.
We recently had a scare where she accidentally put her fingertip in some icecream and whilst I wiped it clean as soon as it happened we think that a tiny amount was left under her nail. Within 5 minutes she was rubbing her eye and when I took a look she had hives all the way across one cheek, eye lid and onto her forehead. Her lower eyelid was also swelling and it took two doses of piriton over a 5 hour period for all the swelling to go down.
I am a SAHM and am able to control her diet so accidents like this are extremely rare. However, I am of course concerned about what will happen at school particularly as at the xmas party at her pre-school (separate school) they were happy to get her to decorate a biscuit to take home which was specifically described on the packet as being 'unsuitable for dairy allergy sufferers' 
she doesn't have an epi pen so we would be relying on piriton but would the school be able to keep some in their office for her to take in an emergency or would I be expected to go in and give it to her? Obviously we will talk to the school once we know she has a place but just wondered what the general experience was for other people?