i have severe ibs , which only in the last 3 years has become more in control.
if things are flaring up, i use the lactose free milk in moderation, and avoid as much dairy as possible.
i also avoid wheat, and try not to have more than one meal a day with wheat. for instance wheat breakfast cereal means no pasta for dinner and jacket potato for lunch.
cut out spicy foods, and anything with caffine , thats choc, tea and coffee.
avoid for month.(longer if really bad) then gradually work back in small amounts.
fibre is very important, but in small amounts, but important to keep 'going' if you see what i mean.
caffine gives you the runs, and encourages a lazy bowel.
when constipated i sprinkle a teaspoon of lindseed on my cereal.
and the family all eat high fibre foods,such as brown rice, wholewheat pasta/bread etc.
this is to keep my fibre intake high, and want my family to have healthy bowels!
white bread is a treat in our home!