Partner of 16 years 3 children together, I’m part time he’s just recently started his own small business. I do 90% of housework and childcare. drop kids to school rush to work, leave work rush to pick up so all the clubs and they do plenty etc. dropping picking up older child at weekend if he goes out to see friends make tea every night. I don’t have much of a social life due to being so busy at home/work and the kids. Partner has always been a bit of a drinker, but drinking more lately, he drinks beer pints 7 days a week. It can vary from 3/4 one night to 6 the next to around 7/8 at weekend sometimes even 10 if he’s feeling kiddy at weekend. He takes eats tea with us, always says he’s had a late dinner usually a takeaway chippy, he sometimes has a drink after work at the pub. Not sure how often this is as he won’t tell me. But the thing is he comes home from work at around 4 or 5 every evening and rings people up in whilst standing in the kitchen and just seems to talk about himself all night. He claims it’s work related, but if I listen in he may mention one thing about work and then the rest seems to be banter between men having a laugh or him fishing for compliments from friends/acquaintances about his work. What would you do? He can quite happily stand messing in his phone for a few hours.