I’m not sure why I’m posting tbh.
I’m just so distracted by his actions still.
he’s drunk problematically, lied, suspended from old job, done for drink driving etc etc since 2021.
Finally separated in 2024 and nearly finalised divorce.
He’s been very low, anxious and depressed for a while, not coping with his job, lots of time off sick, running up debts etc.
We’ve always stayed in touch as share a dog and adult kids.
Recently he’s been suicidal and I’ve been in touch more, just checking in and reminding him of sources of support etc.
He’s had brief periods off drink but been drinking still but not to same extent as at height.
Given all he’s been feeling, extra support me and his family been giving in last month, I’m so disappointed that he was at pub on Sunday drinking 4 pints watching the footy with our ds.
just that realisation yet again that he’s not going to stop. He seems to think he’s able to drink ‘normally’ now. Despite telling me he’s going to AA again etc.
I’m annoyed that I’m even surprised tbh.
I’m just so annoyed that I’m sucked in again to being bothered and worried by his choices.
Im not at all interested in reconciliation but want him to be ok for him and our kids.
I’m seeing someone but will always be sad my marriage ended.