I grew up with an alcoholic father. He stopped drinking but when he was it was horrible. Years later I met someone who wanted to befriend me and this person had an alcoholic in their family who was drinking. It brought all the unhappy years back to me. I could not befriend this person for my own sanity. This person thought I was wrong abd should just let go of my past abd still befriend them. I said I couldn't do it. I do not associate with anyone associated with alcoholism as j find it upsetting. Im fine with people who have never experienced alcoholism before and I am much happier and forget my past. Am I wrong