My husband drinks like this every week, it’s 10 units 3/4 nights a week. He says it’s fine but he has depression and physical health problems which will never improve while drinking this much but he says they aren’t affected by it. I worry he is over the limit the next day when driving in the morning and he angrily says he has worked out that it’s fine. He occasionally drinks with friends but mostly it’s at home by himself. I can’t remember the last time I saw him drink just 1/2 drinks. He is angry when I confront him about it, says I shouldn’t micromanage him etc. We are separating probably anyway but that will involve living together for a while and I’m struggling being around it. I worry about the impact on our children. Am I overreacting? If he didn’t have mental and physical health problems and was nice to us all and not sluggish and irritable, negative most days I probably wouldn’t care as much. I am realising his problems are self inflicted and I don’t have any sympathy/tolerance anymore. We have been here many times and he sometimes manages to reduce his units per week for a week or so but always it ends up going back to normal. Thanks for any advice. I grew up with alcoholics and have seen how bad it can be - I know it isn’t at that stage but I still absolutely hate it.