Hi my 1st thread here. I am a mum of 2 and have been with my partner over 10yrs. Everything is mostly good but my main concern is my partners drinking. He works full time and occasionally would have a few beers during the week if footy is on but at wknds he would have approx 8-10 drinks every fri /sat and mostly sun. I am not a big drinker myself and rarely would have any. We would normally do family days out wknd but at night he would sit and drink on his own and fall asleep sofa. More he drinks he changes and has to pick at stuff I say. He can be quite moody and bring up stuff from yrs ago and always try to make out that he knows my feelings more than me if I answer him bk. There is no romance at all, barely any conversation as he would sit and drink and scroll on his phone. He doesn't see it as an issue as he works all week and enjoys a drink at wknd but I hate him wen he's a had a few as he can be quite off with me. He makes out I can't cope without him and need him, even sometimes sober he would have his own way of putting me down and he's right. I do love him but am starting to realise that i am sick of the same stuff every wknd. He's a good father but that's issue that I feel keeps us together as I don't want to break up our family. But the drinking and lack of communication and romance is destroying my feelings towards him. I just want a normal life and feel like he needs drink to enjoy a weekend. Any advise be helpful..