Hi, looking for some advice on this. DH has always liked a drink but I've noticed over the last 6-12 months the quantity is steadily increasing. He never has a day without alcohol now and can easily put away a bottle of sherry or whisky in 3 days, often + beers, wine and G&T. He's much less physically active since having COVID and has gained a lot of weight. He's ready for bed by 9pm, 9.30 at latest and snores badly. He's only early 50s but we can't really do a lot of the things we used to enjoy together - going hiking, bike rides etc. We don't go to bed together either now as I can't go as early as that and I feel we're losing closeness. I'm pretty sure it's a reaction to work stress and he's on antidepressants which I know won't be helping the weight gain either. No realistic prospect of changing jobs. He did reduce his hours but this doesn't really seem to have helped. I'm really worried about his health, sleep apnea, diabetes etc and feel a bit like I'm married to an old man (he's younger than me). I know I need to tell him about my concern but not sure how best to do it. Just back from holiday and thought I would raise it with him while we were away but chickened out as didn't want to ruin the holiday, and now he's about to go back to work and will be stressed again, I just don't think there's ever going to be an ideal time. I'd be grateful for any advice on the best way to raise this. I know any change has to come from him but do think he would respond to my concern.