Hi everyone,
I don’t know what to do with my husband.
He will get drunk in the house around 2/3 times a week. By drunk I mean drink a 70cl bottle of vodka and not come to bed until 2/3am and then wake me up and pester me, will try to put his hand down my pyjama bottoms or try to grope me.
Last week I came home from work and he was drunk while our 2 children were home. I completely lost it and told him I can’t do this anymore. Lots of apologies later and he promised he would cut the drinking down to once a week. He had a drink again 4 days later as his football was on and he doesn’t get to drink at work (he works out of the country) so thinks he should be allowed to.
Fast forward to last night him asking if I would mind him having a drink. I stupidly told him to do what he wants because if I said no he would have been sulking all night. He starts drinking at 7pm and doesn’t come to bed till 2/3, wakes me up and hes back at it with the groping, trying to pull my pyjama bottoms down. I just can’t keep doing this.
He clearly has an alcohol problem, should I be helping him with this? Should I be walking away? It’s went on for years and I’m at the point where I can’t take it anymore and I know I shouldn’t have to deal with this.