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Used to drink alot. Now I don't. Feel terrible after 1 nighti on the razz

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WaitingforSummer77 · 12/06/2023 04:37

I used to drink 5-7 bottles of wine a week. It wasn't good for me. It was destroying my health and relationships. I was going through some very challenging circumstances and I was using it to cope.....in retrospect it didn't help me cope, it made everything worse.

Over the last 6 months I have cut right back. I probably have a drink once every 2-3 weeks. Earlier today I met some friends socially and had 2 pints of beer with them. I then went to a friends house and had 3/4 bottle of wine. My friend would have been happy to just drink tea, but I wanted wine.

I then went home and drank 1/2 bottle of Prosecco. I feel absolutely terrible, as in very sick, headache and insomnia. I also know I won't be able to fulfill my responsibilities tomorrow and have sent an email with my apologies/excuses.

I feel so sick right now, but there is part of me that wants to drink the rest of the Prosecco. Why am I doing this to myself? Should I stop drinking completely? I like the feeling that it gives me of escapism and freedom. I justify it because I only do it once every few weeks. But it's not right that I feel so sick now, but really want to drink the rest of the Prosecco.

Advice please?

OP posts:
itendswithus · 12/06/2023 04:52

DO NỐT DRINK THE PROSECCO WOMAN!!!

Go to bed, you'll be asleep before you know it. 💐

WaitingforSummer77 · 12/06/2023 05:28

@itendswithus thank you....you are right

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GracePalmer33 · 12/06/2023 07:10

It sounds like once you start drinking you can't stop.

I haven't drank for almost 6 years for this reason ☺️ I'm glad I never have to go through those remorseful handovers anymore. When I drank I ended up making bad decisions, calling in sick to work the next day, cancelling my responsibilities etc. I have a much simpler and happy life now!

RubyMurry22 · 12/06/2023 07:37

Hope you didn’t do it! I’m coming up on 6 months AF and it’s feeling life changing! No plans to ever drink again as I can’t moderate.

Dumbphone · 12/06/2023 07:44

You know the answer. You’re not able to have a quick drink. If you were, you’d have stopped at two pints. The amount you drank makes you feel incredibly unwell, today is going to be painful.

there’s loads of help and support around. You need to get to the bottom of why you want to escape and feel ‘free’. Life doesn’t have to feel trapped. I was in al-anon and met some glorious people. AA gets rave reviews.

good luck lovely X

DataNotLore · 12/06/2023 07:46

Look at it this way- you've been reminded why you don't generally drink!

Be gentle with yourself today and don't do it again.

AthenaWhite · 17/06/2023 18:55

Also 6 months AF. Started dry January and kept on going. I suggest reading Alcohol Explained by William Portman. It's poison and it will poison you.

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