At my wits end with severely alcoholic brother. He has been admitted to NHS hospital for endless detoxes, often discharging himself after a few days, and now finally has a chance at a new start with a lovely flat within a sheltered housing situation which we hoped would give him the companionship of people around to strengthen his resolve to stay sober. I am watching this destroy the life of my 85 year old mum who's in poor health herself ( heart and lack of mobility). I can't help feeling so angry with him that he's been putting her through this for the last 25 years. She's broken. I know it's got up come from him if he wants to crack this but all I can see is a sibling in his 50's with a death wish. Nothing I say to him helps. I really feel I just need to walk away for my own sanity but need to support my mum...