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Act of random kindness

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Stuckhere2021 · 18/04/2021 03:55

Hi all. Dreaded insomnia bad tonight (one of the reasons I started drinking too much in the first place) so here I am on the sofa while everyone else sleeps. I’d been doing okay then was triggered and had a 4 day bender. It got so bad I was hiding alcohol in my neighbour’s hedge as I knew family were searching for it in the house - it was that bad. I was ‘out a walk’ to retrieve it but a couple walking their dog was in the area. I was hanging about until they went away and then grabbed it when I thought they were out of sight. I know I looked suspicious as they kept turning round and looking at me.

Anyway, I was out walking a few days later - totally sober and on day 2 of being AF when I noticed a sticker stuck to the lamppost at the exact spot I used to identify where the booze was hidden in the hedge. Someone had handwritten on it “to whom it may concern, don’t let the bad days win’.

I’m convinced it was aimed at me and one of the couple stuck it there. It’s not in a place /area where you’d expect this sort of thing. It’s really touched me - that someone went out of their way to encourage me and showed such empathy.

I’ve taken a photo off it and it’s become a bit of a mantra. Hoping I will finally rid myself of this awful habit- posting in the Hope this will also inspire others who are struggling.

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bishbashbosh99 · 18/04/2021 05:19

That's so lovely. I don't have alcohol issues myself but came across your post and wanted to wish you well xx

Coyoacan · 18/04/2021 05:43

Oh, that is lovely. I managed to stop drinking three and a half years ago. I found taking lots of vitamin B complex helped.

OvertheRainbow2U · 18/04/2021 08:23

What a lovely message...it may be from the one of the couple - which is so very thoughtful. If just randomly placed there by a passer by it does not matter. It's your mantra now - and if it lifts and guides you to a better future then you are very blessed. Good luck to you - I am in a similar situation and if I spotted a few words like that near my home I would take it as meant for me..

Stuckhere2021 · 18/04/2021 10:29

Thanks for the good wishes. I really do think it’s for me as it is in such a place literally my signal for where the booze was hidden and where we live is just not where people would do something like this - but even if it is truly random, it’s like a sign and a reminder that sometimes days are bad, but they don’t last forever .

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