Despite the name, I don't drink Cremant, and I don't do cocaine. I do however drink far too much wine, and lockdown has exacerbated that. I have the (very) occasional gin, or dry martini and tonic as well. I think I would benefit from a period of abstinence for health reasons.
My problem is my DH. He comes from a hard drinking family, his mother was an alcoholic but nobody would talk about it. He drinks a lot, lots of cider (Strongbow) and craft beers. Strangely after years of drinking Strongbow he has suddenly stopped drinking that. But he has drunk nearly a bottle of gin this week as well as wine and beer. The alcohol does not stop him functioning, he is disciplined about eating well, he exercises, conscientious worker.
I never used to drink that much, I can't blame my increased consumption on him, but undoubtedly I would not be drinking that much if it wasn't for our relationship. Our relationship is good, but I think we have both slipped into very bad alcohol habits.
I have just told him I am stopping alcohol for a while and he looked uncomfortable. He would be supportive and not sabotage but I think it will be difficult to stop completely if he carries on drinking. However I want to try. I can only control myself.
Sorry for the essay. First time I have admitted there is a problem and it all came out....
So, any recommendations on good books to read to start me on my journey?