My partner has been a binge drinker since a teenager ( has alcholic father and uncle) Nights out with after parties full of alcohol and other substances have been his life every weekend. Always i have believed he will stop when we got a mortgage, try for a baby, whilst pregnant and certainly when the baby came. It has not stopped. He attended AA for 5 weeks after things got worse and he admitted to the gp be has a problem and cannot stop once out and drinking. He then started drinking again assuring me AA had helped him and he could control it. He then drunk daily but promised no more than 4 spirits. Now back on the binges and drinking as and when. After another incident of a binge spending £100, forgetting he has a baby and partner at home, too hungover next day to lift a finger im at my limit and have said he must stop drinking. Am i being unreasonable? He doesnt drink from the morning and all day, it doesnt usually affect his work but it is a major issue to our relationship and worry this will become the norm for my son. Through drink in the last year he has had 2 black eyes, other bundles with shady characters, buying cocaine (although I dont have proof of that) lost chance of promotion as decided to get stoned and drunk night before, but somehow is very good at blaming me and any one else for why he does these things. Appreciate any advise. Thank you