Just wondered if anyone has any thoughts on this.... it's another alcohol one. My husbands's has always drunk a lot - in fact our courtship revolved around it. Over the last few weeks, however, it's become more and more excessive - 1 - 2 bottles of wine per night, every night, and more on the weekends. He doesn't drink in the day ( I think he thinks that means he's OK) but all activities revolve around alcohol - whether they will allow him access to alcohol, etc. He rarely has a night off. I've begged, pleaded , cajoled, encouraged, shouted. From time to time he cuts down, - stops mid-week, only buys bottles rather than boxes, etc, but he always reverts to the status quo. This 'cutting down' has happened maybe eight times over the last 2 - 3 years. I'm absolutely sick of him being pissed every night, unwilling to do anything interesting as he's fearful of not getting enough to drink, and lying next to an inert, leaden, stinking drunk. I moved out of our bedroom and into our stepdaughters' (now 20 and 22 - live 200 miles away with their mother) room about 5 weeks ago. I've told him that I'm not moving back until he goes to AA and stops drinking. I've booked a house in France for a week in the summer holidays and told him I want a separate room from him. He says he will only come if we share a room (we are going with other people and I think he's worried what people will think). I'm very happy to go alone with our son (14). He wants me back in our bedroom and says he is cutting down. I don't really trust he will do this and feel I should stick to my guns about stopping totally and going to AA. Any thoughts anyone?