Hi regular poster on other parts, didn’t realise there was an alcohol support section. Can anybody advise please?
My DS thinks her DH is probably an alcoholic. He has had a building problem over the last couple of years. Last time the drinking got really bad they resolved, he said he would control but not give up. He doesn’t think he needs to. He has never been violent, but can be verbally abusive. Both when drunk and sober. Seems to suffer on and off with a mild depression form what she can deduce, but also denies this. Time has passed and now under stress he has started again, estimate roughly 30 units a day. Morning, before work after work on way home and at home. Ds had said last time it peaked that she couldn’t see a future if he didn’t control it. Sadly it seems he can’t. He doesn’t think he is an alcoholic. They have small children and she is in love with her husband. I am worried that if he continues to escalate he could turn physical because he is already verbally abusive. I also worry she will have a life time of her life revolving around peaks and lulls in his drinking, and never really live without the problem popping up for long. I also worry about the effect this may have on the kids. I’ve suggested al anon for advice for him and his gp, last time he wouldn’t go. I’ve also suggested she go herself to get some support from others in similar position. Any helpful opinions would be really welcome. Thankyou.
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Alcohol support
Can anyone with experience offer advice
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Needalittlehelpplease · 21/10/2018 20:43
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