Been with my partner 18 months , always knew he enjoyed a drink especially after work but it’ soon became apparent it’s a few cans every night not just weekends , it changes his personality and he becomes opinionated in his views on any thing and everything.
I sit back and watch his personality change , not so much nasty or ever aggressive Just unbelievably opinionated every one else is wrong he is right .
My Sunday evening been ruined after he polished off a bottle of wine and became on his soap box about politics then moved on to a well known singer who he described as being a sexual deviant and no worse than M Jackson , I disagreed and said he was wrong , god forbid I disagree , I stood back and looked at him and thought why am I putting up with this and offered to take him home .
He declined a lift and walked straight to the nearest pub saying I was the one in the wrong and that I can have an opinion but he can’t .
Past history is if there’s a problem in his life go off and drink known for his benders in difficult times , seen him turn and sleep in his car before now .
It’s such a shame as it spoils him .
Health not great yet continues to smoke and drink , makes me sad as he’s going to end up in an early grave of which he is aware .
Sorry for ramble not even sure what I want in response just feeling so low 😕