I’m so sorry, sadly your experience is far more common than it should be, and many adoptive families are comprehensively failed by the system.
From what you’ve described, your daughter should almost certainly be entitled to adult social care support under the Care Act, including a full needs assessment and funded provision (such as supported living or residential support if she can’t live safely at home).
She should also qualify for priority housing/supported accommodation due to disability and safeguarding risk.
If she has (or should have had) an EHCP, she may still be entitled to education provision up to age 25.
I would strongly suggest requesting immediately:
• a Care Act assessment from Adult Social Care
• a housing priority assessment (homelessness/disability route)
• mental health/learning disability services involvement
Consider a stage 1 stage 2 complaint under the children's Act 1989 against the local authority for failure to provide services.
If you’d like, I’m happy to share some guidance on how to request these formally and what wording helps. You’re not alone in this — many families are discovering too late that support should have been there all along.
What services your daughter is likely entitled to
Even without knowing every detail, someone in your situation usually has rights to:
1. Adult Social Care support (Care Act 2014)
At 18+, the LA must carry out:
• a Care Act needs assessment
• a support plan
• funded care if eligible
This can include:
✔ supported living
✔ carers/PA hours
✔ residential placement if needed
✔ behaviour support
✔ respite
If she “cannot live at home safely” — that almost always meets eligibility.
2. Housing priority (VERY relevant)
Because of:
• disability
• risk at home
• inability to live independently
• safeguarding concerns
She should qualify for:
priority housing / supported accommodation
Often under:
• homelessness duties
• disability priority banding
• safeguarding vulnerability
This can include specialist supported housing schemes.
3. Education / training provision (up to 25)
If she has:
• EHCP (or should have had one)
She may still be entitled to:
✔ specialist college
✔ alternative provision
✔ funded education up to 25
Even if she’s currently out of education.
4. Disability benefits
Likely entitled to:
• PIP (Personal Independence Payment)
• potentially ESA/Universal Credit with disability element
Which can help fund living support.
5. Mental health / behaviour services
Given:
• harmful behaviours
• false allegations
• complexity
There should be:
✔ community mental health team involvement
✔ possibly learning disability services
✔ behavioural specialists
And specifically around Adoption the following still applies: -
1. Adoption Support Services (before 18 — and sometimes bridging beyond)
Under the Adoption and Children Act 2002 and Adoption Support Services Regulations 2005, LAs must assess and provide adoption support where there is need.
This includes:
✔ therapeutic services
✔ behavioural support
✔ specialist placements
✔ respite
✔ crisis intervention
Crucially:
Support is based on need arising from adoption, not income
It should be proactive, not only when families collapse
Many LAs failed families by:
• under-assessing
• drip-feeding therapy
• closing cases too early
Which often leads directly to the kind of crisis this parent describes.
2. Adoption Support Fund (ASF) – therapeutic & stabilisation help
Before 18 (and sometimes in transition planning), families can access the Adoption Support Fund, which pays for:
• specialist trauma therapy
• behavioural interventions
• family stabilisation work
• neurodevelopmental support
This is not means-tested.
Where this wasn’t used properly (or enough), LAs are often at fault.
3. Transition duties – when adopted children approach adulthood
Good practice (often ignored) requires:
children’s services + adoption services + adult services to plan together
So that:
• support doesn’t suddenly fall away at 18
• placements don’t break down
• housing and care are ready
When this doesn’t happen (which is common), it’s a service failure.
4. If adoption breakdown is linked to unmet adoption support
Where a young person can no longer live at home due to:
• trauma behaviours
• false allegations
• risk
AND support was inadequate earlier…
The LA may still have continuing responsibility (or at least liability) because:
the crisis flowed from failures in adoption support
This can strengthen:
• adult social care eligibility
• housing priority
• complaints/redress
5. Education up to 25 (often overlooked for adopted young people)
If she ever had — or should have had — an EHCP, she may still be entitled to:
✔ specialist college
✔ supported learning
✔ funded provision
Trauma + disability frequently justify this.