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Selective mutism

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EG88 · 07/05/2024 22:50

Can anyone recommend any good books or resources for working through selective mutism (as soon as we leave the home) Thank you x

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LeoLeo2 · 08/05/2024 21:17

There is sadly not a lot of useful information around selective mutism, especially through the lens of adoption/trauma.

There was a short BBC TV series a few years ago that followed 3 families whose children suffered with selective mutism. I think it was called, 'My child won't speak'. You may be able to find it online?

My son used to be a selective mute. It has been a long journey but although still reserved and quiet when around people he doesn't know, he does now talk in all situations.

If I can be of any help having gone through this with my son then please ask. I only really know what helped him and it may not be relevant or suitable for your child but some things may be transferable.

EG88 · 18/05/2024 20:41

Thank you. Was your first stop GP? My LO speaks constantly at home and has a great range of vocab. He speaks a bit in nursery (after 2 years) but in social situations and with extended family he doesn't know well he can not speak at all or he will speak one word if I speak first for example I'll say, "Let's say goodbye, thank you" and he will say that. I'm worried GP will dismiss because it is not consistently non verbal. But I want to find ways to protect him from unhelpful relatives telling him to use his words which I find frustrating and upsetting.

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Jokat · 20/05/2024 12:39

Hi. My daughter used to have selective mutism. With the help of a very understanding, small school and our close family members all being on board she managed to overcome it. We found that " The Selective Mutism Resource Manual" was a very useful guide for us as well as the staff at school.

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