We adopted DD 5 years ago. Also have 9 year old birth son.
SS rang and told us BM is giving birth this summer and are we interested.
I have to be honest I wasn't ever expecting this call after so long and I am totally thrown.
We are very happy as a four. We face challenges but it all seems manageable. DH seems very up for it but to be honest most of the child related responsibility comes down to me and I am not as certain. I worry for the 2 we have, for the huge age gap between the eldest and youngest and whether we could cope if they have learning delays like DD.
How do you make a decision this big? The first time round was easy. We wanted another child and adoption was the way we chose to do that. This time I just don't know what to do!
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We just had the call about a sibling....totally mind blown!
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Ohdoleavemealone · 19/05/2022 16:08
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