Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Adoption

Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on adoption.

Home visit

6 replies

Nel81 · 08/11/2021 20:43

Hi, in August I expressed interest in a child who is available for adoption. I have a home visit with their family finder and social worker next week. Just wondering exactly what happens during one of these visits. I have read the child's adoption and medical report. Any information / advice would be appreciated.

OP posts:
scully29 · 08/11/2021 20:59

When we had ours they were here for about ah hour, had a look at the house, showed us videos etc and had a chat with us, generally getting to know us abit and they asked questions and we asked questions.

JohnPA · 08/11/2021 21:01

This is a visit to get to know you and assess if you are the right fit for the child in question. It’s also an opportunity for you to get to know more about the child and ask questions. They might even show you additional photos and videos of the child.

When social workers undertake these visits, it means you are potentially a good match for the child. However, on occasions, they undertake visits to more than one person/couple (also known as competitive matching), and then select one of them (your own social worker can confirm if they are only visiting you or more people).

Pretty soon after the visit, and if you are still interested in adopting the child, there would be a matching meeting between your social worker, the child’s social worker, the family finder, and their managers, to discuss and decide if you are a match. If you are, then they would book you into a matching panel and agree the next steps with you. The child’s social worker and your social worker would write a report to take you to matching panel. Before matching panel you might have an opportunity to see the child in person as part of a ‘bump in’ meeting with the foster carer.

If you are pretty confident about the child, then it’s good to be prepared for the visit. For example, when we had our pre-matching visit, we prepared and printed a little presentation with photos of us, our house, information about the nearest schools, nurseries, parks, GP, hospital, etc., and also included a table summarising what we thought were the main needs of the children and how we could meet those needs. We did this to show we were really keen on adopting our sons, and in case they were visiting more people. At the time, the social worker and the family finder really appreciated this and they said it was quite useful to then show the presentation to the managers during the matching meeting. I know most people don’t do this, however, it is good to show them you are prepared and have thought about your neighbourhood and practical things, and also about the potential needs of the child and how you can meet those needs.

Good luck and let us know how it goes. :)

claireb7rg · 09/11/2021 06:32

When we had ours, the kids sw looked round the house, our sw asked questions about what support the kids council would provide. We asked questions about the kids, the kids sw and ff sw asked us questions

It's a mutual meeting to make sure the link is right on both sides

claireb7rg · 09/11/2021 06:33

To add we had a list of questions we had prepared from reading the kids cpr and other info on them

scully29 · 09/11/2021 09:21

oo- we had already sent a 'why us' essay from reading the CPR on why we felt we were the right family which included all the how we can meet their needs etc etc. That helped I think as wed answered a lot of their questions beforehand through this.

Nel81 · 17/11/2021 18:59

Thank you all for your replies. The home visit went well and just have some things to consider before making a decision.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page