Epilepsy and Adoption

[ButterflyBailey]

I have Epilepsy and thinking about adoption. Does anyone know if this would be a problem? Has anyone had experience of adoption with Epilepsy? I would take all the precautions needed and incase I had a seizure, I would not be alone with a child in any situation that could put them in harms way. I have a partner and family that would help in those instances. Thank you for replies xx

Your best bet is just to talk to agencies, but maybe also your doctor.

You have to have a medical when you adopt so it’s kind of up to them really but it’s worth a chat and they may be able to help support you in what you might need to do???

That's a good idea, thank you x

Someone on our course was epileptic, and she was told she had to have a certain period of no fits (I don't know how long). Unfortunately she did have another so wasn't allowed to adopt. Her and her husband were the loveliest people, but he worked an hours drive away so she would have been on her own with the LO, and as her epilepsy wasn't controlled they couldn't risk it.

That's good to know, thank you x

@Netherlandspost I had thought that would be the case. I would not be alone with a child. Especially when bathing or doing anything that would put the child at risk if I were to have a seizure x

Hi there I have had epilepsy for 30 years albeit they are controlled with the meds. I am also a wheelchair user and my experience of the adoption process what making sure I was prepared to make sure any child’s needs come first. Yes I have my own needs but I had to endure I had good examples of how I would be able to take care of any child. I have children within my brothers families I have always looked after and they do like to know you have experience of child care. Look up disabled parents forums and websites. Arm yourself with as much positive information as you can. I don’t k is exactly what they would say to someone else helping out but I would say as long as you are mum and you are physically capable, the family etc are there to support you in your role as a parent. Mine are too and things have worked out just fine. I would go for it if it’s what you really want m, speak to your families, friends anyone you see within your support circle. There are a lot of epileptic parents out there with active seizures. My own needs being a good example with two of her own and a single mother too. The social worker you get should support you and keep you right on what is required. It’s something to have a good think about but I wouldn’t say it’s impossible with the right support. Good luck, let me know what you decide and feel free to ask any questions xx

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